Thursday, November 6, 2008

Imagine all the people living life in peace...

On Tuesday, November 4th, for the first time in my life, I was able to vote. I pretty much knew from the start who I was voting for.

I'm from the North and a very liberal area. I've always considered myself Democratic and even more fittingly, a liberal. In high school, one of my best friends was gay and many other teenagers were not afraid to come out. Everyone treated everyone equal, based on personality, not social or economic status, not by religion, and not by sexual preference. Moving to this new big state 3 years ago was a culture shock, when I quickly discovered that many people here, did just the opposite. Every morning I wake up and think how lucky I was to be raised where I was raised, and by who raised me. My mom is pretty much a modern day hippy, extremely liberal and I feel like I agree with her on a lot of political and social issues. I would consider my dad as more of a moderate. I'm not sure of his actual beliefs on every little topic, but despite what he may believe, he is respectful of other beliefs and I think that is one of the most important qualities to have.

Throughout the past few months, I haven't talked about who I was voting for. It was always in the back of my mind, but I'm a young college student with a very busy life, and in my day to day life, it wasn't important to talk about it, like everyone else seemed to be doing. On Tuesday afternoon, I drove 30 minutes to a little town in our precinct. I had decided not to change my address to the college, and thankfully I didn't, because on election day the line was 6 hours long. In my precinct, I only waited about 5 minutes (+ a few extra minutes because someone made a typo when filling out my address for voting). I filled out my ballot and was done. I voted for Barack Obama and No on a Ammendent 2. I didn't talk about it with anyone, I just went along with my day, like it was any other day.

That night, I had my house all to myself. Around 6pm I turned on the news and watched the results all the way until the new President was named (with a few episode of Jon and Kate Plus 8 thrown in between so that I wouldn't go crazy). At 11 pm, an announcement interrupted the news. Barack Obama was the new President of the United States of America. Then something happened that I was not expecting. I began to cry tears of joy, relief, and hope. Maybe this will really be the change that we all need so badly.

For me, the election did not go completely smooth. The next day my heart was broken when I found out that Ammendent 2 passed. So many people have just associated this with gay marriage, which I 100% support, but its so much more than that. It hurts to think about how anyone with a civil union have had so much taken away from them and I wish I had to power to just give it all back to them. My boyfriend and I never talk politics, but November 4th night, we talked about it a lot. He was raised, in terms of liberal/conservative, similar to me and we have a lot of the same views on that type of stuff. We both consider often, if it doesn't apply to us, why should we have the right to take it away from the people that it does.

That's about all I can say about all of this right now. My superfiscial world is calling, and I need to go get ready for a sorority/fraternity social... it shall be interesting

"You may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one. I hope someday you'll join us And the world will be as one"

4 comments:

Little Miss Sunshine State said...

I'm so proud of you, I could cry.

My hope was to raise children who would accept and love people for who they are, and not tolerate hate based on race, color, or who a person chooses to love. I think my choice of friends exposed you and your brother to a lot of different kind of people.

You got it. I'm still working on your brother!

Kerry said...

Hi Sorority Girl! Welcome to the blogging world. I too was raised by open-minded, liberal parents (mom moreso than dad) and have followed in their footsteps. I too voted for Barack Obama, although unfortunately living in Kansas means my state ALWAYS goes red. Ugh. I strongly support gay rights(even before my brother told us he is gay) and was devastated when I heard about all of the propositions that passed banning civil unions of homosexual couples. I have never understood why it bothers conservatives so much.

Keep up the blogging and good luck in school!

Heather T said...

Hi Sorority Girl! Welcome to blogging!
I voted in my first election almost 20 years ago in Florida. I'm not there anymore, but I'm glad that you have come there to fill my voting shoes!

Jenn @ Juggling Life said...

I came over here from your mom's site.

What a thoughtful post and very well-said. Even if I hadn't read your mom's comment I would know how proud she was of you.

My 18 year old son voted absentee (we're in CA and he's at school in CO) for Obama and against 8. Yesterday my 14 year old daughter and I (and 19,000 or so of our closest friends) participated in the Parade and Rally in San Diego--this cannot be the end of this important civil rights matter.